Why avoidance is not a solution
Adolescence is a sensitive period not only in your life but in everyone’s, as it is characterized by emotional fluctuations and changes. It is a time of constant questioning, during which you realize that you can achieve things you dreamed of as a child. However, it is also a period of opposition to parental authority and a pursuit of greater freedoms.
During this challenging time, with a strong desire for independence and autonomy, you may feel pressure and control from both your family and school. This pressure creates tension in your relationships and often leads to conflicts. When such tension and conflicts persist for an extended period, the need to act and the desire to escape these challenges arise, possibly leading to thoughts of leaving home. For this reason, before resorting to such an extreme decision, try inviting both your parents—if possible—to engage in a calm and warm dialogue. Share your perspectives and feelings about the issues that cause friction, using arguments within reasonable limits, and express what you wish could change. Then, listen to them and work together to find a common solution motivated by love and mutual care.
It’s important to recognize that there may be times when you don’t even know why you feel the need to leave home. On the one hand, you might want to explore the world, while on the other, you may feel disappointed by the lack of communication with your parents.
It is crucial to understand that in every moment of tension, both now and in your adult life, patience, understanding, and mutual respect will help to defuse the situation. Don’t forget that your parents, as well as your school, are allies in your journey toward adulthood and independence, helping you avoid the dangers that running away and wandering into unknown places could expose you to, such as crime, sexual or physical abuse, and drug addiction.
If you ever feel that your parents or your school cannot provide the help you need, don’t hesitate to seek support from a professional.
