Here are some tips that will be very useful to you as new dads:

1. Overcome any aversion to diaper changing – It’s time to realize that diaper changing isn’t that big of a deal, even for dads. In fact, it’s necessary to know how to do it and practice regularly to get comfortable. After all, moms can’t be on their feet 24/7, so lend a hand and get rid of the excuse that it grosses you out. Once you get the hang of it, it will become a simple routine task.
2. Don’t stress if you don’t feel an immediate bond with your baby – Bonding with your baby takes time. Nothing happens magically, and that’s perfectly okay. There’s no need to stress—or even feel disappointed—if you don’t feel that deep connection right away. Give it time, and gradually you’ll build a beautiful and unconditional relationship with your little one.
3. Choose a favorite song and sing it often – Music plays a crucial role in a child’s upbringing. Our memories and moments are often intertwined with songs and beautiful melodies. What could be better than having your special song with your child? Pick a nice song and make it a habit to sing it to your baby as often as you can.
4. Don’t be afraid to hold your little one – Although your newborn may be delicate, believe me, they won’t break. They aren’t made of glass or porcelain—although they’re not made of rubber, either. Be careful about how you hold, lift, and cuddle your baby, but don’t let constant worry overwhelm you. Trust your instincts and act with care and love, without fear.
5. Be glad to support your partner and contribute to daily life with the baby – It’s essential to learn how to do everything related to your newborn and not expect your partner to handle it all. Take initiative and help out with practical tasks, like diaper changes, feeding, cooking, and cleaning. The early days can be particularly exhausting for the entire family, so decide to help selflessly with whatever your partner and your baby need.
6. Don’t be overly critical – Watch your baby grow into a “real” person with whom you’ll begin to communicate, as they develop their personality and new skills each day. Scolding or constantly pointing out mistakes doesn’t help, and it doesn’t make them better. In fact, it damages their confidence and self-esteem. Remember, they deserve to grow into a whole and happy person. Harsh criticism rarely leads to positive outcomes, so be affectionate and understanding, even when they make mistakes. Praise them sincerely, as this will boost their emotional well-being as they develop.
7. Enjoy every moment – Yes, there will be times when you feel exhausted or days when you feel like you’ve done something wrong. Even on those days, remember how valuable and meaningful each moment is. Why? Because your child is a part of these memories. Don’t let the years slip by unappreciated.
8. Read to your child as much as you can – As your baby grows, take the opportunity to spend time reading beautiful stories together. This simple act can strengthen your bond and create cherished memories. Plus, it’s a great way to introduce your child to wonderful books and authors, making reading a shared experience.

Enjoy the ride!