5 Useful Tips for New Moms
Motherhood is a true blessing; however, no one, and in this case, no woman, was born an expert to take on this role. The period after childbirth will be an entirely new experience for the newly formed family, and the new mom will face different and naturally demanding situations with her baby at home.
Below, you will read some useful tips for new moms:
- Don’t be afraid of your baby – Yes, your baby may seem extremely fragile, and there might be fears about how to hold, feed, or dress them. However, while a newborn is indeed delicate, it isn’t made of porcelain. It just requires gentler and more careful handling.
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Find a good and trustworthy pediatrician for your little one – A good pediatrician is essential for feeling secure, especially during the first period after returning home from the hospital. Make sure to choose a patient pediatrician who is willing to explain, answer questions, and help resolve any concerns or anxieties you may have.
- Say “no” to compulsions – There is no greater pressure than forcing yourself to be perfect at everything and manage it all. What’s most important during this phase is for both you and your baby to be well. Prioritize what matters and focus on those things. Don’t rush to become the “perfect woman” with countless roles. Gradually, you will find your rhythm, so give yourself time.
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Help the new dad learn to handle the baby independently and not become complacent – This period is challenging for both you and your partner, but since your baby will be dependent on you for a while, you don’t have to do everything alone. It’s a good idea to share the responsibilities related to your baby, which will also give you some relief. Show him how to bathe your little one, how to prepare the formula if you’re not breastfeeding, how to soothe the baby when they cry, how to change diapers, and even how to hold them. These details may not be familiar to him, but once he learns them, you’ll feel a weight lifted, as you’ll be more at ease.
- Ask for help from your loved ones – The first days with your baby at home will be difficult and probably very exhausting, so don’t fall into the trap of trying to do everything on your own. The only thing you’ll achieve that way is burning out. So, don’t hesitate to ask your close ones for help with anything you need, whether it’s cooking, cleaning, or grocery shopping, among other tasks.
And don’t forget to savor every moment with your baby because they are truly priceless and unique!
Foteini Adriana Stamoyiorgou
